October 2005

Heather Shortlidge visits a teenage patient at
Children's Medical Center, Dallas.
On any given day during the last year Heather
Shortlidge (’01) could be found sitting on the floor laughing and
playing with pediatric cancer patients. Or counseling hospital staff
who had had an emotionally draining shift. Or performing an
emergency baptism in the intensive care unit on a child who wasn’t
expected to live.
Shortlidge (’01) would never have guessed that four
years after graduating from University of Richmond she would have been
ministering to sick and injured children and their families as a
hospital chaplain at Children’s
Medical Center in Dallas, Texas. To the contrary, the leadership
studies major anticipated a lucrative business career.
By the spring of her senior year, Shortlidge had
lined up a great job at the Kennedy Center in Washington, D.C., for
the summer and had accepted an enticing job offer from Accenture, a
management consulting firm, to start in the fall. But then University
chaplain David Burhans called.
Burhans told Shortlidge that Salisbury Presbyterian,
a Richmond-area church, was offering a scholarship aimed at recruiting
a college student to a career in the ministry by providing free
tuition, room and board for the first year of seminary. “Heather has
always had a sense of the sacred,” Burhans said. “She finds meaning in
thinking about moral and spiritual issues.” He thought she’d be an
ideal candidate for the scholarship.
Shortlidge wasn’t so sure. She opted to pursue her
original post-graduation plans instead. “But I kept thinking about Dr.
Burhans’ suggestion,” she said. “I couldn’t believe someone would pay
for me to go to school. In the end, my decision to go to seminary was
a God thing.”
Shortlidge put her Accenture job on hold and arrived
at Union Theological Seminary, a Presbyterian school in Richmond, Va.,
two days into orientation. “It was a rocky beginning,” she said, “but
I stayed and loved it.”
The scholarship provided by the local church covered
the first year of her schooling, and Union awarded her a full
scholarship for the last two years. Shortlidge knew she wanted to work
with children, so following her graduation from seminary, she accepted
a one-year appointment as a hospital chaplain at Children’s Medical
Center in Dallas, Texas, one of the nation’s top pediatric hospitals.
The hospital treats children for a variety of
conditions, including trauma, cancer, cystic fibrosis and diabetes.
Shortlidge ministered to the affected children as well as to their
families and the staff members who cared for them.
“Any time a child gets sick,” Shortlidge said, “the
whole family goes into crisis. When a child is diagnosed with cancer,
for example, the family doesn’t have much time to transition. One day
life is normal and the next day it is totally different.”
“So I would tell the family that they now had a new
‘normal,’ a normal which would include bringing their child to the
hospital for weekly blood counts and chemotherapy treatments and
watching their child get sick,” she said. However, the good news,
according to Shortlidge, is that treatment options have increased
significantly during the past 10 years.
Despite the emotional intensity of the job,
Shortlidge loved it. “There wasn’t a typical day in the hospital,” she
said, “and that was part of what was exciting about it.”
When she worked on-call shifts, she was the only
chaplain in the hospital. During a 24-hour shift Shortlidge responded
to all codes, traumas and deaths. She spent the majority of her
daytime hours listening, building relationships, troubleshooting the
complexities of the health-care system and providing much-needed
spiritual and emotional support to patients and their families.
Children’s Medical Center serves patients from
diverse socio-economic and religious backgrounds. It’s important to
minister to every family that comes in, regardless of their faith, or
in some cases, lack of faith, Shortlidge said.
“My job was not to overtake their faith,” she said,
“but to supplement it. When families walked through the front doors,
the hospital became their world, and I needed to figure out how I
could accommodate their needs within that setting.”
Shortlidge also had to figure out how to maintain her
own sense of equilibrium in such a setting. “You make sure you work
with colleagues who support you and who you can talk to,” she said.
She met with the hospital’s other chaplains for an
hour and a half each day for an educational seminar, which included
time for discussion of difficult cases and personal issues. “We tried
to be very intentional with each other,” Shortlidge said. “If someone
was covering a death, we checked in with them during the process and
followed up with them afterwards. It was also important to have
friends in the community outside the hospital.”
Shortlidge believes her education prepared her well
for hospital chaplaincy work. “Seminary gave me the tools to
articulate my faith and let me have conversations with others about
their faith journey,” she said. “It also taught me a lot about
tolerance and respect for other faiths and how people grieve
differently.”
Her Jepson experience also proved beneficial. “Jepson
taught me how to work in groups with people I didn’t necessarily
pick,” Shortlidge said. “I learned how to be a part of a team of
people with a wide variety of learning styles and belief systems.”
Shortlidge referred to the hospital’s team of
chaplains to illustrate her point: her colleagues included a Polish
nun, a Polish priest, a Southern Baptist minister and a Hispanic
Catholic deacon. “I was the youngest chaplain by 15 years, one of only
two Protestants in the group and the most liberal in terms of my
theology,” she said. But despite these differences, she and her
colleagues functioned effectively as a team.
Shortlidge just completed her one-year appointment at
Children’s Medical Center in mid-September, and she has begun
interviewing with various Presbyterian churches around the country.
She plans on serving as an associate pastor for a few years before
entering a Ph.D. program, she said.
She will go wherever she is called. “Jepson really
nurtured my sense of flexibility and gave me the confidence to go
halfway across the country to Texas with my first job,” Shortlidge
said.
She also recalled the mentoring she received from
Burhans while she was a student at University of Richmond. “I really
credit Dr. Burhans with my decision to become a minister,” she said.
“He saw something in me I didn’t see in myself.” |